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For Him

I just want to tell you that...

1. I love you cos you are so funny
2. I love you cos you are very smart
3. I love you cos you always make me laugh
4. I love you cos I'm happy when I'm around you
5. I love you when you stroke my hair
6. I love to see you working
7. I love you cos I can speak my mind freely
8. I love you when you tell me funny stories
9. I love you cos you always share with me
10. I love you cos you always show that you love me
11. I love you cos you always understand me
12. I love you cos you accept me for who I am

1. I hate you cos sometimes you not telling me the truth
2. I hate you cos sometimes you hide something for yourself
3. I hate you cos you are too nice (hehehe)
4. I hate your lingroib
5. I hate when you sleep while we watch movie (oops I hope I not make you bored)
   
6. I hate when you tickle me and wont stop (kyaaa...!!!)
7. I hate when we fight and you scold me
8. I hate for this uncertain thing
   

Thanks so much for everything and to have you in my life

3 Sides

Some people say there are 2 sides to every story. But for me there are three:

1. Their side
2. Your side, and
3. The truth

Happiness Is...

Happiness is a consistent, moderate state of satisfaction or joy. True happiness with yourself and your life comes from having a strong, balanced, consistently positive approach to yourself and your world. If a person doesn't feel an overall sense of happiness with life, there must be something wrong.

If happiness is a skill set, then you can learn to be happier. Some people seem to be born happy. Or perhaps these "happier" people have simply already learned these happiness skills through their interactions, through reading, or by having a keen perception into human nature. Their happiness is something you can learn from and achieve for yourself.

Even happy people have down days. It's unrealistic to expect permanent, nonstop happiness. Such a thing doesn't exist in reality. However, you can learn to be more content with your life, confident in yourself, grateful for what you have, committed to your personal growth, full of laughter and good cheer, and optimistic. You can also learn to develop positive, supportive relationships with the people around you. In fact, by focusing yourself steadfastly on these seven areas, you can quite readily achieve them. Just remember that by enjoying yourself on your path to greater happiness, you're already a good way to achieving what you desire.

Dua Sisi Cinta

CINTA... hanyalah lima buah huruf tak berbentuk.

Tapi dia bisa membuatmu bahagia,
Dia bisa membuatmu berbunga-bunga,
Dia bisa membuatmu selalu tersenyum,
Dia bisa membuatmu bersemangat,
Dia bisa membuatmu terbang melayang-layang,
Dia bisa membuat hari-harimu indah penuh warna.

Tapi dia juga bisa membuatmu sedih,
Dia juga bisa membuatmu marah,
Dia juga bisa membuatmu kecewa,
Dia juga bisa membuatmu penuh curiga,
Dia juga bisa membuatmu gila,
Dia juga bisa membuatmu menangis.

CINTA... bahkan diapun punya sisi baik dan sisi buruk.

Jagalah cintamu yang sudah ada.
Peliharalah cintamu yang sudah kau punya.

Positive Thinking

Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets
So love the people who treat you right
Forget about the ones who don't
And believe that everything happens for a reason

If you get a chance, take it
If it changes your life, let it
Nobody said that it would be easy
They just promised it would be worth it

Feel Much Better

As we grow up, we learn that even the person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will
You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time
You will break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken

You will fight with your best friend
You will blame a new love for things an old one did
You will cry because time is passing too fast
And you will eventually lose someone you love

So take too many pictures
Laugh too much
And love like you've never been hurt
Because every 60 seconds you spend upset
Is a minute of happiness you'll never get back

Joy: "I hope today is bright, no cloudy, no rain."
Nits: "Hope so. Life goes on, and I have to move on."

I Want A Guy...

Who would move the hair away from my eyes
Who would hold my hand and make all the girls jealous
Who would sing to me at random moments
Who would let me sleep on his chest
Who would get mad if someone called me with bad names or was mean to me

Who would call me if he went away
Who would listen to my story, and smile
Who would laugh at me when I acted dumb
Who would make fun of me just to make me laugh
And then kiss me a million times

Who would give me big bear hugs all the time
Who would tell his friends about me
Who would never be afraid to say "I Love You" in front of his friends
Who would argue about silly things then make up
Who would spend time with me on weekend

Who would watch movies together
Who would just sit together and read book
Who would tell me I'm beautiful but not too often
Who would make me laugh like no one else could
Who would be honest and share everything with me

But mostly, I want someone
Who would always be my best friend
And would never break my heart

If You Love Someone...

Tell her how you admire her
When she's upset, hold her tight
Pick her over all of the other girls you hang out with
Hold her hand, let her fall asleep in your arms
Get her mad at you, then kiss her
Look into her eyes, smile, and kiss on her forehead

Tell her she looks beautiful
When she's sad, stay on the phone with her even if she's not saying anything
Dance with her even if there's no music
Sing to her no matter how awful you sound
Play with her hair, tell her jokes
And when you fall in love with her... tell her you love her at all times

Nicknick's True Identity

What's Your Cat's True Identity?

Former Incarnation: Winnie the Pooh

Aliases: Snooky, Poohsticks, Woozel, Droopy, Munchie, Snugglebuns, Shoo-shoo, Furball

Description: Subject can be identified by its vulnerable and cuddly nature. Subject can generally be found on a lap or in any location that promises snuggling and adoration.

When it cannot find a human heating pad to sleep on, it can be spotted sprawled out in awarm, sunny spot. Subject can be needy and demanding. Subject is a member of the new twelve step program, Codependent Cats (CC).

It is loyal and will most likely add a light layer of fur to all of your clothes. Has a knack for knitting, kneading, and baking blueberry pies. Meows frequently and happily, and may be caught singing silly songs to itself. Prefers light reading and children's books. Dreams of moving to an amusement park.

Nicku so cute :)

Dear Diary

Dear Diary, let me tell you 'bout my story
I know it's rather sad
But that's the way I feel

Dear Diary, I don't know if this is right or wrong
Started thinking of leaving him
But I'm afraid it might hurt him

All I want is for everything in the right place
And everyone is happy
Is it too much to ask for

Dear Diary, strong is not exactly the right word
Started thinking of leaving him
But I'm afraid it might hurt him

All I want is for everything in the right place
So everyone is happy
Is that too much to ask for

Dear Diary, strong is not exactly the right word
I don't know what to do now
Confusion is all over me

-- I knew someday I'm going to lose you --

She Is Like Moung Pichaya

"Full of ideas, and knowing where you wanna go in life.... Yet delicate in not wanting to be forceful. Want man to know and pick you on his own without doing the things the other girls do to get attention."

That is what he thinks about her

* The pic was taken from plumeria888

True Friends

You are my friend, and you bring me another friends
And here we are, a group of people
Our circle of friends...

We've met so many people in our lives
Even the strangers in your neighborhood,
Or the strangers in other part of the world
They all can be your friends

But they will leave you for a short time,
And only very few will stay close to you

Someone who always be there for you when you have ups and down
Someone who always listen to your problems
Someone who always honest and tell the truth, even if it's bad
Someone who always willing to give, not only take
Someone who always back you up and never let you down
Someone who is not taking advantage of you

One good friend is worth more than a dozen others
Don't be the only one who doesn't know what's happening
Just because you would not take the time to listen

True friends will always stay in your heart forever
Then which one is more important, the quantity or quality?


~~* I dedicate this to my very best friend, P *~~

Empty Inside

Kamu datang, aku menghampiri
Tapi kamu seperti hilang ditelan bumi

Membuatku kacau, galau
Dan kosong didalam sini

Kalau saja kamu tahu
Aku terus selalu disini


~~*Welcome to Jkt, Naruto chan*~~

Being A Woman

• Just because no one has been fortunate enough to realize what a gold mine you are, doesn't mean you shine any less.

• Just because no one has been smart enough to figure out that you can't be topped, doesn't stop you from being the best.

• Just because no one has come along to share your life, doesn't mean that day isn't coming.

• Just because no one has made this race worthwhile, doesn't give you permission to stop running.

• Just because no one has realized how much of an awesome woman you are, doesn't mean they can affect your femininity.

• Just because no one has come to take the loneliness away, doesn't mean you have to settle for a lower quality.

• Just because no one has shown up who can love you on your level, doesn't mean you have to sink to his or hers.

• Just because you deserve the very best there is, doesn't mean that life is always fair.

• Just because God is still preparing your king, doesn't mean that you're not already a Queen.

• Just because your situation doesn't seem to be progressing right now, doesn't mean you need to change a thing.

Keep shining, keep running, keep hoping, keep praying, keep being exactly what you are already complete......

The Truth About Hugs

There's no such thing as a bad hug, only good ones and great ones. Because hugs are:

• Non-fattening and they don't cause cancer or cavities..
• All natural with no preservatives, artificial ingredients or pesticide residue...
• Cholesterol-free, naturally sweet, 100% wholesome and they are a completely renewable resource...
• Easy to care for, they don't require batteries, tune-ups, or x-rays...
• Non-taxable, fully returnable and energy efficient...
• Safe in all kinds of weather...
• In fact, especially good for cold and rainy days, and
• Exceptionally effective in treating problems like bad dreams or Monday blues...

Never wait until tomorrow to hug someone you could hug today. Because when you give one, you get one right back your way!

1 Day Before Valentine's Day - Love Cards

Hope you get well soon, Naruto-chan

2 Days Before Val's Day - Love Tips

Small talk sometimes define as meaningless conversation to fill empty silences. But it can be an opportunity to make a lasting impression with the person you are talking with. Here's to do to make small talks become more interesting:

• Avoid the typical conversation such as comments about the weather. Choose interesting topics to you and the person you're talking to.
• Make yourself confrontable. People will be more receptive to having a conversation with you if you approach them with a smile and an easy manner.
• Be yourself. Reveal who you really are.
• Talk about things you know. Don't ever act like you know about something that you don't. It's more embarrassing to be caught in a lie.
• Pick a topic based on a current event. But make yourself appear more interesting, not argumentative.
• Ask people about their work and hobbies. People love to talk about themselves.

Having a partner not only that you have someone in your life and do fun things together. But when they're feeling down, or depressed, you have to be there for them too. The most important thing is to learn how to be a good listener.

• When they want to talk, put everything else out of your mind and be there with them while they are talking.
• Listen to what is actually being said and look at them when they are talking to you.
• Very often, they won't say exactly what's on their mind straight away. By looking for their emotional tone, voice inflections etc., you will get indicator of what is bothering them and also how it is affecting them.
• Remain calm when they are angry. They will lash out at you because you are there. If you get angry back, it will only make things worse.
• Affirm and agree with what they say or feeling, but try to avoid drawing comparisons like, "I've been there before." This will bring a break in communication, and also seem like you're invalidating what they're feeling. Try saying something like, "That must be frustrating (or other emotion) for you."
• Avoid general statements like, "It will get better" or, "Everything will be okay". It can be taken the wrong way, like they can't find their own solution without your help. Ask them questions that will help them come to a positive conclusion. For example, "What are you going to do?" or, "What do you think will happen?"
• Don't make assumptions like, "You're scared" or, "You're worried." Even if they're feeling that way, it isn't your place to tell them so. They will take it as if you're telling them what to feel instead of offering your support. Try asking what they are feeling and why.
• Offer your help can make all the difference in the world to them. Just make sure to let them show or tell you how to help them.
• Offer your support. Send a card or a letter letting them know you are there for them. Or allow yourself to be a shoulder to cry on.

3 Days Before Val's Day - Love Symbols

CUPID

Cupid is the son of Venus, the goddess of love and beauty. He is known as a mischievous winged boy, carrying a bow and an arrow. The arrow signify desires and emotions of love. He aimed the arrows at human, causing them to fall in love.

HEART

Heart is an important symbol. Because heart is the sacred place of emotions, it also signifies life. We always heard people say that they give their heart to someone they love. It means to give their whole being to their lover, cos heart is at the center of human body. Heart shaped is the perfect way to show their feelings.

FLOWERS

It has been a messenger of love for ages, especially Roses. It symbolize peace and war, love and forgiveness. A great way to tell your lover how special they are and how much you love them. But choose the color carefully.
Red rose stands for love and passion. Yellow rose stands for friendship. White rose stands for true love and purity of the mind. Pink Rose stands for sweetheart or appreciation. Black rose means farewell.

RIBBONS, LACES, FRILLS

Are also symbol of romance. They have been used a long time ago when a knight wore them specially made by his lover before he went to the battlefield.

LOVE KNOTS

Young Muslim women used to send love messages to their sweethearts to confess their feelings through the knots of a woven carpet in Arab tradition. It is a classic symbol of never ending true love. They are also used as means of proposing for marriage. This love knots can also be drawn on paper or using ribbon. This concept continues to this date and is quite popular.

LOVE BIRDS

Are adorable little blue colored found in Africa and they always be spotted sitting together in pairs of two. These love birds can't live without their mates. This belief is still cherished by love struck people all over the world.
Apart from love birds, there is also doves that signify purity and innocence. And swans are also popular symbol of an eternal relationship.

4 Days Before Val's Day - Love Words

• It doesn’t matter who you love, or how you love, but that you love – Rod McKuen

• Love isn’t here or there, it isn’t happy, sad, good or bad. Love is just love – Anonymous

• There is only one happiness in life: to love and be loved - George Sand

• Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it – Robert M.

• If I am pressed to say why I loved him, I feel it can only be explained by replying: "Because it was he; because it was me" - Montaigne

• We can not do great things. We can only do little things with great love - Mother Teresa

• Close together, or far apart, you will always be here in my heart – Anonymous

• Love is missing someone whenever you’re apart, but somehow feeling warm inside because you’re close in heart - Kay Knudse

• Sometimes heart sees what eyes can not see - H. Jackson Brown Jr.

• This is miracle. The more we share, the more we have - Leonard Nimoy

• The greatest weakness of most humans is their hesitancy to tell others how much they love them while they're alive - Orlando A. Battista

"I love you because I know you're always there.
To catch me when I fall, to listen when I need you,
when I feel alone, and to make me laugh.
Love is a gift, and I give my love to you" -- Nits *big hug*