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Monday, July 30, 2007
If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives... Be kind anyway
If you are honest, people may cheat you... Be honest anyway
If you find happiness, people may be jealous... Be happy anyway
The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow... Do good anyway
Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough... Give your best anyway
For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway
Life is beauty, admire it
Life is a dream, realize it
Life is a challenge, meet it
Life is a duty, complete it
Life is a game, play it
Life is a promise, fulfill it
Life is sorrow, overcome it
Life is a song, sing it
Life is a struggle, accept it
Life is a tragedy, confront it
Life is an adventure, dare it
Life is luck, make it
Life is too precious, do not destroy it
Life is life, fight for it
* Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
* Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
* If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
* Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better". You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
* The only person you can control in a relationship is YOU.
* Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
* Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
* If something bothers you, speak up.
* Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
* You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
* Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are. Even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
* Never let a man define who you are.
* Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
* You should not be the one doing all the bending. Compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships.
* Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary, not supplementary.
* Dating is fun even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
* Make him miss you sometimes... When a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him, he takes it for granted.
* Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man.
* Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others."They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them."
According to Martha Beck, because they're hurt. They were crushed. Maybe their parents or their lovers made them really hurt. And they're still afraid the pain will never stop or that it will happen again.
The fact is that we've all been hurt, and we're all wounded, but not all of us are mean.
And I think mean people end up ugly their whole lives.
Lapang...
Tak berujung
Hanya daun-daun berjatuhan
Rumput tak bergerak
Dan...
Burungpun berhenti bernyanyi
Diam!
Tenang!
Suara angin terdengar pelan
Seiring dengan hilangnya...
Satu sosok yang kupuja
Dalam hati...
Dalam jiwa...
Saat semua airmata jatuh
Saat semua senyum menghilang
Saat semua cerita usai...
Aku berkata,
"Selamat jalan, Bapakku tersayang..."
Ditulis oleh Catra Anantya Paramita --
pada 7 hari wafatnya Bapak kami
Y : Loved by everyone
U : Gets blamed for everything
A : Gorgeous
N : Sexy
I : Loves to laugh
T : Great kisser
A : Gorgeous
My nickname is... (don't ask why hahaha)
B : Loves people
A : Gorgeous
R : Good bf/gf
N : Sexy
E : Deeply in love with his/her gf/bf
Y : Loved by everyone
Name Meaning Here:
A : Gorgeous
B : Loves people
C : Really easy to fall in love with
D : Is great in bed
E : Deeply in love with his/her gf/bf
F : People wild and crazy adore you
G : Never let people tell you what to do
H : Freakin’ beautiful eyes
I : Loves to laugh
J : Makes people laugh
K : Really silly
L : Best smile
M : Makes dating fun
N : Sexy
O : Has one of the best personalities ever
P : Popular with all types of people
Q : A hypocrite
R : Good bf/gf
S : Lives life for fun
T : Great kisser
U : Gets blamed for everything
V : Not judgmental
W : Very broad minded
X : Never let people tell you what to do
Y : Loved by everyone
Z : Lives life for fun
I used to be one hehehe...
19. Is it easier for you to fall asleep or to be woken?To be woken. If I hear a sound I will wake up easily
20. Think of one person, stick with it. You don’t have to say their name. Would you pick them up alone 100 plus miles away if it was your birthday?Yes if this person has gift for me hahaha...
21. Give two reasons why you get distracted in work.When I get bored and hungry
22. Do you think it’s funny when people get hurt?I don't think it's funny. But if they're mean, they have to pay for what they did
23. Would you rather go to Tokyo or Paris?Tokyo!!! Because a lot of kawaii stuffs there!!!
24. Do you have a guitar in your house?No
25. Do you wish you were somewhere else right now?Sometimes... no, many times hehehe...
26. How often do you get onto friendster?Almost everyday
27. How long can you go without your mobile phone?If I leave my house only for 5 min, then it's ok for me not to bring it
28. Where’s your mobile phone?Right in front of me
I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles these three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.
I've learned that regardless of your relationship with your parents, you'll miss them when they're gone from your life.
I've learned that 'making a living' is not the same thing as 'making a life'.
I've learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance.
I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw some things back.
I've learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision.
I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one.
I've learned that every day you should reach out and touch someone. People love a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back.
I've learned that I still have a lot to learn.
I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.
(Maya Angelou)
http://www.lovecalculator.com/
Lie is to present false information with the intention of deceiving.
Sometimes people lie to get what they want, or for their own sake. Or when they know they couldn't get something or someone they like, they will tell lies to other people so that other people can't have it too.
What a shame. They don't think the consequences what if people find out that they already tell a lie. What do they think about that? How can people trust them anymore? Maybe people will see "I am a liar" written on their forehead. That would be funny, actually 
What that person up to?
Is there something behind those kindness?
Am I wrong this time?
Then why I have this feeling?
Same feeling like I had before?
Why am I so worried?
I can feel it
I can sense it
Something is wrong
Something is going to happen
But you don't see it
Or you can't?
Because you never listen to me
You never believe me
But I wish you all the best
Good luck...
When a woman is not arguing ... she is thinking deeply
When a woman looks at you with eyes full of questions ... she is wondering how long you will be around
When a woman answers "I'm fine" after a few seconds ... she is not at all fine
When a woman stares at you ... she is wondering why you are lying
When a woman lays on your chest ... she is wishing for you to be hers forever
When a woman wants to see you everyday... she wants to be pampered
When a woman says "I love you" ... she means it
When a woman says "I miss you" ... no one in this world can miss you more than that
Life only comes around once. Make sure you spend it with the right person
Find a man who calls you beautiful instead of hot
Who calls you back when you hang up on him
Who will stay awake just to watch you sleep
Wait for a man who kisses your forehead
Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats
Who holds your hand in front of his friends
Who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you
Who turns to his friends and says, "That's her!!"
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Sejauh ini
Belum banyak kata-kata yang diucapkan
Belum banyak perasaan yang ditunjukkan
Tapi malam ini
Begitu banyak kata-kata yang dilontarkan
Begitu banyak emosi yang dikeluarkan
Akankah semua dapat kembali,
Seperti sediakala?
Apakah lampu kristal itu tau cahayanya telah menerangi ruangan yang gelap?
Apakah matahari tau pancarannya telah menyinari pagi yang berembun?
Tapi kenapa bumi ini tetap bersedih?
Kenapa bumi ini bertambah sakit?
Kenapa aku makin tak mau tau?
Andai aku tetap bisa menikmati
Indahnya bintang-bintang,
Lampu kristal, dan
Matahari
Selamanya
Thanks so much for everything and to have you in my life 
Your mind will seek out new opportunities to move you forward.
I am sure we all have friends or family members who either spend their time at best, standing still, or at worse, going backwards in life.
If it’s the first two, then it’s time to shift your view of life! Let’s look at which areas of your life you should shake up.
Decide that all your actions should now to be framed with the aim of moving forward. Remember, go anywhere as long as it is forward.
I love cats, very much. They are small, cute, and pretty little creature. Cats are cute. But being a copycat is not cute at all. It's bad and annoying. If you like to copy of what people do, say, wear, etc, that means you are a fake. Each person have their own style, have their own way of thinking, habits, you name it. And if you always follow them, that means you're not being yourself, you're not true to yourself, and you're not creative. Cos you pretend to be someone else or trying to do something that you don't really like.
I just found out recently that there's someone starts to follow what I like to do and what I said to my friend. For example, this person doesn't like to watch movie, this person told me so, never enjoying it. But watch a movie is my hobby, and I often to do it with my friend. And suddenly this person asked my friend to watch movies together. I was like, "Hello... find your own fun idea, or you don't have one?". Hate it. Frankly, I feel pity for this kind of person. They're not creative and not fun. That's worst and... sad. You can be a very smart person, but when you deal with society, with people, with friends, you HAVE TO BE very very smart and creative. That's important in socialization or they wont like you. So be creative, and be original.
Happiness is a consistent, moderate state of satisfaction or joy. True happiness with yourself and your life comes from having a strong, balanced, consistently positive approach to yourself and your world. If a person doesn't feel an overall sense of happiness with life, there must be something wrong.
If happiness is a skill set, then you can learn to be happier. Some people seem to be born happy. Or perhaps these "happier" people have simply already learned these happiness skills through their interactions, through reading, or by having a keen perception into human nature. Their happiness is something you can learn from and achieve for yourself.
Even happy people have down days. It's unrealistic to expect permanent, nonstop happiness. Such a thing doesn't exist in reality. However, you can learn to be more content with your life, confident in yourself, grateful for what you have, committed to your personal growth, full of laughter and good cheer, and optimistic. You can also learn to develop positive, supportive relationships with the people around you. In fact, by focusing yourself steadfastly on these seven areas, you can quite readily achieve them. Just remember that by enjoying yourself on your path to greater happiness, you're already a good way to achieving what you desire.
Tapi dia bisa membuatmu bahagia,
Dia bisa membuatmu berbunga-bunga,
Dia bisa membuatmu selalu tersenyum,
Dia bisa membuatmu bersemangat,
Dia bisa membuatmu terbang melayang-layang,
Dia bisa membuat hari-harimu indah penuh warna.
Tapi dia juga bisa membuatmu sedih,
Dia juga bisa membuatmu marah,
Dia juga bisa membuatmu kecewa,
Dia juga bisa membuatmu penuh curiga,
Dia juga bisa membuatmu gila,
Dia juga bisa membuatmu menangis.
CINTA... bahkan diapun punya sisi baik dan sisi buruk.
Jagalah cintamu yang sudah ada.
Peliharalah cintamu yang sudah kau punya.
